Sullen clouds gather and soon after, the rain falls. Though it be darkness now; the sun still shines after the rain. So fret not, my friends, let your troubles be washed away by the rain. For i'm here with you to face it all. *hugs* Please be strong!
When we talk about love, what is that very first thing that comes to your mind?
In my opinion, its trust and communication. Trust is most important in relationships, in fact, it should go hand-in-hand with love. We can never separate these two things. And we can only be with people who has the same ideal as we do. Without trust, it builds suspicion. With suspicion, it creates unhappiness. With unhappiness, a relationship snaps.
It is true that we are all imperfect in one way or another and there will be times when we make mistakes and disappoint someone else too. But the crucial part is when these mistakes are made, what do we do about it? Try to cover up with some lame excuses? No way! We should face them, admit it and ask for forgiveness. If the person understands you and loves you enough, he/she will definitely forgive you. If not, at least we've been truthful about it. That is why communication plays a big role in building a relationship too.
But still, this is just my two cents worth of opinion. Because what might work for me may not work for you. Love without trust is still possible but i guess it'll be very painful.
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